Jul 24 2008
How to Give a Massage
If you want to know how to give a massage, congratulations. Massages are a very special act that can really bring two people together - whether is be via therapy or part of an intimate setting.
There are many aspects to giving the best possible massage. In different articles, we’ll go through different parts of the massage process.
For this one, we’re going to talk about preparing a comfortable massage area. This is widely underestimated and crucial to performing a good massage.
For example, a lot of people think a soft bed is good enough for a massage. This is not the case. See, when you give a massage, it’s best for your recipient to be on a firm and supportive surface. Comfort is very important too, of course - but don’t forget firm. In fact, a futon or another extra-firm surface would be the best possible setting.
The reason why a soft bed or couch doesn’t work as well is because your body can buckle and then not support the recipient’s body in certain places, which only puts undue and unsafe pressure on joints.
Make sure, that as the masseuse, you’re in a comfortable special situation with room to move around. If you’re uncomfortable or in an awkward position, your limbs might fall asleep. A good idea is to keep a pillow nearby if you need it.
Also, make sure that your recipient isn’t against a wall so that you can straddle his or her back if necessary.
Next, make sure that the atmosphere is as soothing as possible. Don’t give a massage where there’s likely to be a lot of noise or distractions, as this dramatically takes away from the message.
As far as clothing - the less, the better for the recipient. Naked would be ideal, but if your recipient doesn’t feel comfortable, then they could wear underwear and it would not seriously affect the massage. If you’re massaging a woman, you could have her lie on her front so she can take off her bra without feeling exposed. Sure, you could work around a bra - but for an unskilled person (even skilled people) - that just makes these techniques all that more difficult.
Overall, the setting of your massage is very important. It might seem like a small thing, but it makes a world of difference in giving an effective massage.
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